College is a very hit or miss place for relationships. Most are too busy with school and the occasional kegger, that they miss out on the selection of perfect, intelligent partners. Everyone in college is striving for success in school and career.
After college, my perception changed. I realized that life was also about who I will be with the rest of my life. I miss my college girlfriend. We were both in a stage of life that was not based on the future of us. It was fun, but also is very hard for me to realize that I lost her. She is married now. There are other women out there. I feel like i am still stuck in the college state of mind.
Where do I go to meet women. In college it was easy. I went to the local sports bar, and hit on dumb chicks. I have figured out that the bar is not the place to meet the one. Where do I go? I don't know. I guess, later in life, fate takes over. It is not about your charm, but more about finding the right girl at the right moment.
I feel so different now on dates. My morals, and goals have changed. I have just tried to be myself and let fate decide what will happen tomorrow. There is nothing more for me to hide. I am the way I am now. There will always be maturing, but I have made myself the way I am today. Why change. After 26 years of life, I guess it is just time to let my life live on until she comes.
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