Realize

Trying doesn't always prevail, a person can always fail.

Do you ever feel like you are destined to fail at a task, no matter what you do? Life throws us a curve ball when we least expect it. Sometimes we swing and miss regardless of the effort involved.

I have been trying to figure failure out. If everything is possible, then why do people fail. Does it depend on the person? Or may the actions taken to complete a task, cause failure. I believe it is a little bit of both. The very first thing that you have to do is realize the actions that you are taking. Certain people like me tend to put blinders on the truth. I have realized that in life you can only fail because you are setting yourself up to fail. I may be putting every last effort into the task at hand, but I am selling myself short. You may have been making the wrong actions the same way for way to long.

You must realize that lies to yourself are a lot easier than lies to someone else. I always thought that things were going to be alright. No matter what the situation. It is a positive way to think, but you are actually being really negative. By taking advantage of the positive outlook you may not be preparing yourself for success. I have been lying to myself for a while. I lost a lot of opportunities that I could have had. My mind was clouded. I was lying to myself.

Don't put things off till a later time. At that later time it will be a lot harder to succeed.

There are so many actions that a person can take to succeed. At the end of every day, I sit down and think about my actions that day. What mistakes did I make this day? What could I have changed? Once a mistake is realized, you must own up to it. Your not perfect. Your actions hurt yourself if they are wrong. Be true to yourself and make a change. Realize your mistakes and make the next day better.

By changing a wrong action from yesterday, you will prevail today.