Trust Tangent

Trust

It means so much to have it, but means so much to lose it. I was thinking about the unsurmountable action of losing trust from someone you love or care for. This loss closes all doors between you and that loved one. The actions that cause loss of trust are hard to plan ahead for. Usually something happens that is spontaneous and you go for it. You don't think about the tremendous damage the action could cause. Sometimes in life we "go for it" in situations. Whether it is betraying a friend, girlfriend, or even wife. Life happens, but broken trust is a wound that doesn't heal.

The weird thing about trust, is that it can be lost without a action taking place. Either you distrust someone from the first time you see them, or somehow you just feel that you have lost trust with the person you are with.

I lost trust in my last relationship. I can't explain it. I just felt deep down that there was something wrong. I don't know why, but you all can relate to "just feeling like something isn't right". These feelings, I believe are instincts. Our instincts are the oldest part of us and cannot be taken for granted. Everyone has them and uses them on a daily basis. Try and listen for them

I believe that you must trust yourself. If you feel like something isn't right with your partner, or friend then you need to make a decision. Decide whether you want to have that feeling in the back of your mind for the rest of your life, or trust your instincts. Once you reach that realization, you have alot of figuring out to do. Don't rush your decision. Ultimately you will come to the conclusion to follow your instincts. Even if you feel trapped, once the cage is opened you will feel free. I can vouch for that from personal experience.

Some people are caniving, dishonest, and will hide the truth to their grave.

Don't lose trust once you have it, and don't take for granted the instinctual feelings of your human self.

JENGA FOR LIFE

There are so many moments that I would take back in my life.....

Stop. Take a second or so and look back on your life. What would you change? .....................................

There is so much that we would want to let go. Why did we do what was done? What made us think the way we did?

It was a different time. Different place in life....Different Moment......

Trying to make sense of it is impossible. It really concerns me about some of my previous actions. I did some things that I feel now were wrong. I don't know if I was just caught up in the moment of life. The moment has a tendency to catch you. I made some mistakes, but I cant replace time.

It is like a Jenga game. "don't laugh", just listen....

Life is completely built for you. Put all together in one form. Your actions or other actions can remove a block. These blocks represent a time in your life where there was a mistake. When a block is touched or removed it changes the whole look of the form. Some blocks can be removed easy, and some are harder to remove. Ultimately you don't want any blocks removed. Theses blocks being removed are mistakes in life. With the "building blocks of life" removed, you have a greater chance of your life crashing down. Earlier in life "or form" the blocks are easier to remove. As you grow the blocks are harder to remove.

You want to keep the original form. Once a block is removed "mistake", you can never take it back. It is gone, and your life is that much easier to crash down. Try to make less mistakes. Be nice to people. Make good decisions. Make the positive moments positive. Don't play the game if you are intelligent enough to realize the "moments"

Jenga for Life.....

THE PURPOSE

Someone asked me, "what is the purpose of life",

my response:

"You are doing it. Your life's purpose is to live."

What ever happens along the way will happen. You cant change the past or the future. Life for the moment. Be positive. You, and only you can live your life. As long as you feel content, then everything is ok.

MOMENT

The reason we are here is to have that moment. There will be a time in everyones life where everything that was supposed to go right, did. Everything that you needed to be right, was. There are so many things that could be, and so many that will be. Make the best of whats right and realize your accomplishments. We can want everything, but everything is only now. Positive times from the past and comfort of the the future hold us together today.

One day you will stop and look into yourself. You will realize that you life has gone the way you made it, and the positives in the present and the past, were because of you. In that moment your life will have meaning.